Saturday, March 3, 2018
Murray and I would like to offer our condolences to you all. I would like to share some personal memories about Uncle John. First off I grew up with two Uncle John's. One was married to Aunty Mary, the other was referred to as "Uncle John on the farm" and Bev reminded me the other way was "Brother John". I will refer to our loved uncle as Uncle John on the farm . I remember him as being tall and so good looking. He had the most beautiful eyes. Uncle John on the Farm was always so much fun. Always ready to laugh. Always ready to tease. I remember sitting next to him at the farm table and he would lovingly take my hand, bring it to his lips and poke my finger up his nose. Gross yes but so funny! This was our uncle John on the farm. When I moved closer to Ituna, I was hoping to visit him more. This never happened as life always seemed too busy. I am so sorry I did not spend more time with him. When I did show up for a visit, Uncle John would alway greet me with a kiss and a smile. It was like we were never apart for any length of time. I will miss that twinkle in his eye when I would visit. Uncle John loved being with people. He gregarious personality and love of life got him through many difficult times. I know that if he could he would tell us all that family is more important than all the wealth in the world. He would tell us not to grieve too much (but maybe just a little) and to do what makes us happy. He would tell you Heaven is amazing and that he is looking forward to seeing you again. Danny and Wayne, and your families, he you tell you that he loves you beyond measure. He would tell you he misses you. Hold your families tight. Love and prayers Murray and Colleen Pilgrim (in case you know more than one Murray and Colleen).
